विवेचन सारांश
Divine Qualities a gateway to Liberation and Demoniacal Qualities the cause of bondage
Today's session commenced with the lighting of the holy lamp and obeisance to Bhagavān and the Gurus.
In this chapter Bhagavān elaborated on the divine (Daivi) and demoniac (āsuri) qualities (sampad). HE emphasised that qualities, much like wealth (sampad), hold immense value. Wealth is not merely monetary; it encompasses our virtues and abilities, such as intellect and strength. These too are forms of wealth that contribute to the richness of one’s character and life.
However, wealth can manifest in two ways, constructive (Shubha Lakshmi) and destructive (Ashubha Lakshmi). This is exemplified in the cultural practices during Diwali, where rangoli designs often depict shubh lābh, symbolising auspicious wealth that brings harmony and prosperity. But wealth that lacks righteous purpose or alignment with higher values leads to destruction and suffering.
Śiva ji's household has diverse members - Ganesh ji’s mouse, Kartikeya ji’s peacock, Durga ji’s lion, and Śiva ji’s snake. They live in harmony despite natural opposition. Without Śiva (symbolising auspiciousness), chaos would prevail as these animals would prey on each other. This shows that where there is higher wisdom, harmony follows.
Lakshmi ji, the Goddess of wealth, comes in two forms. When worshipped without Narayan (righteousness), SHE manifests as Ashubha Lakshmi, ie. wealth which may lead to vices bringing ego, greed, and destruction. Lakshmi ji’s vehicle, the owl, represents ignorance.
When SHE comes with Narayan, (symbolising virtue and balance), SHE appears as Shubha Lakshmi, Vishnu Priya, Kamala and Gajalakshmi, bringing peace, prosperity, and happiness.
This depicts the need for balance. Therefore we are warned against worshipping power (Shakti) or wealth in isolation. Power without humility leads to all asuri gunas causing suffering. Ravana is a perfect example of this trait. Despite being a learned man, an ardent devotee, and the composer of the famous Śiva Tāṇḍava Stotram, he lacked humility. Blinded in arrogance, pride, uncontrolled desires and anger, he believed that he was invincible. He kidnapped Sītā ji, which marked the beginning of his downfall. His misuse of strength and arrogance resulted in Lanka, his golden kingdom, being reduced to ashes by Hanuman ji. Interestingly, Hanuman ji achieved this with Rāvaṇa’s own resources, symbolising the destruction of arrogance through divine will.
Therefore, Bhagavān emphasised the distinction between divine and demonic qualities. Divine qualities bring light to life, just as the dawn spreads its radiance across the sky before the sun rises. Similarly, those who follow the path of devotion and self-discipline gradually manifest divine virtues.
16.1
śrībhagavānuvāca
abhayaṃ(m) sattvasaṃśuddhiḥ(r), jñānayogavyavasthitiḥ,
dānaṃ(n) damaśca yajñaśca, svādhyāyastapa ārjavam 16.1
Bhagavān listed 26 divine qualities, with fearlessness being the foremost in the army of virtues.
- Abhayaṃ (Fearlessness):
- Sattvasaṃśuddhiḥ (purity of being):
- Jñānayogavyavasthitiḥ (Stability in Knowledge and Discipline):
As Bhagavān said in Chapter 4, In time, the practice of Yoga gets destroyed by indulgence.
एवं परम्पराप्राप्तमिमं राजर्षयो विदु: |
स कालेनेह महता योगो नष्ट: परन्तप || 4.2||
the saintly kings thus received this science of Yog in a continuous tradition. But with the long passage of time, it was lost to the world.
When enjoyment overtakes life, Yoga fades. A disciplined life restores balance.
- Dānaṃ (Charity):
Charity is not limited to giving money; it includes donating time, love, and even credit to others. For instance, a mother-in-law who credits her daughter-in-law for preparing delicious food even though she had only cut the veggies, creates harmony. On the other hand, withholding such acknowledgment leads to discord. Charity, in all its forms, like vidyā dāna (knowledge), rakta dāna (blood donation), anga dāna (organ donation); fosters solutions and strengthens bonds.
- Daman (Self-Control):
Daman or self-control is a divine quality. Initially, restraint feels challenging, but with persistence, it becomes a habit. For example, waking early may be difficult at first, but over time, the inner Ram awakens, naturally guiding the body and mind. Self-control extends to speech, avoiding harsh words, and aligning actions with divine intent. Every act should be performed for HIM. This intent (bhāva) is enough to keep one on the right path leading to the Divine.
- Yajña (Sacrifice): Sacrifice encompasses more than rituals; it includes Dravya Yajna (offering materials), Tapo Yajna (austerities), Jnana Yajna (sharing knowledge), and Japa Yajna (chanting). HE Himself explained Yajña in the 4th chapter -
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Some offer their wealth as sacrifice, while others offer severe austerities as sacrifice. Some practice the eight-fold path of yogic practices, and yet others study the scriptures and cultivate knowledge as sacrifice, while observing strict vows.
In the 10th chapter Bhagavān said, "Among sacrifices, I am Japa Yajna." Thus constantly chanting the Divine name is itself a sacred offering.
- Svādhyāya (Self-Study):
- Tapah (Austerity):
- ārjavam (sweet talk):
Arjav means speaking with sweetness and humility. One's words should always remain gentle and pleasant, akin to being laced with sugar. However, the sweetness is not about consuming sugar but letting it dissolve into one's speech, making conversations delightful and harmonious.
The metaphor of "ice on the forehead" represents maintaining a calm and cool demeanour, even in challenging situations. Combining this with "sugar in the mouth" creates the essence of Mardav (gentleness) and Arjav (simplicity and honesty). Together, they signify a refined personality that radiates peace, kindness, and honesty in words and actions.
ahiṃsā satyamakrodhaḥ(s), tyāgaḥ(ś) śāntirapaiśunam,
dayā bhūteṣvaloluptvaṃ(m), mārdavaṃ(m) hrīr acāpalam 16.2
- Ahiṃsā (Non-Violence):
Ahimsa means non-violence, but its true essence is often misunderstood. We commonly hear the phrase "Ahiṃsā Paramo Dharma" (Non-violence is the ultimate duty). However, this is only half the truth. The full understanding lies in its context.
If a person is perpetuating violence and endangering society, stopping their violence, even by force, is also Ahiṃsā. For example, if a violent individual is about to harm thousands, neutralising them to protect innocents is considered an act of non-violence. This is why when a criminal is sentenced to death for heinous crimes, it is not violence but Ahiṃsā in action, as it prevents further harm.
Similarly, a soldier standing at the border does not kill out of personal enmity. When he kills a terrorist, it is a duty to protect his nation. For this selfless act, he is honoured with awards like the Param Vir Chakra. The soldier’s action is not considered violence but duty-driven non-violence because it prevents greater harm.
However, killing for personal gain, pleasure, or selfish reasons is true violence. Such actions are condemned as they stem from selfish desires and harm society. This is why Bhagavān emphasised the concept of Ahiṃsā as a divine quality while also instructing Arjuna to fight in the Mahabharata.
HE told Arjuna that HE has already destined the demise of individuals like Duryodhana and Dushasana, who committed grave sins. Bhagavān urges Arjuna to act as HIS instrument, fulfilling his duty as a warrior. Arjuna must act not out of hatred but as a duty to uphold Dharma (righteousness).
द्रोणं च भीष्मं च जयद्रथं च
कर्णं तथान्यानपि योधवीरान् |
मया हतांस्त्वं जहि मा व्यथिष्ठा
युध्यस्व जेतासि रणे सपत्नान् || 34||
Dronacharya, Bheeshma, Jayadratha, Karn, and other brave warriors have already been killed by Me. Therefore, slay them without being disturbed. Just fight and you will be victorious over your enemies in battle.
However, Bhagavān added: "Nirvairah sarva bhuteshu" - be without malice toward anyone. Even when killing the enemy, Arjuna is reminded to act without personal enmity, driven only by the duty to protect Dharma. This action, done selflessly, is not violence but Ahiṃsā in its truest form.
As Bhagavān instructed Arjuna in Chapter 11, duty sometimes requires decisive action for the greater good. This form of non-violence, rooted in responsibility, is a divine quality.
- Satyam (Truth and Sweetness):
- Akrodhaḥ (Control Over Anger):
त्रिविधम नरकस्येदं द्वारं नाशनमात्मन: l
काम: क्रोधस्तथा लोभस्तस्मादेतत्रयं त्यजेत् ll21ll
Anger destroys peace and health, dragging one into misery. For example, uncontrolled anger leads to diseases like diabetes and makes life unbearable. Overcome anger to prevent self-destruction and live harmoniously.
- Tyāgaḥ (sacrifice):
- śānti (peace):
- Apaiśunam (Avoid Gossip and Slander):
Talking ill behind someone’s back or indulging in gossip is Asuri Sampath (demonic nature). Speaking kindly and refraining from slander reflect divine qualities. This was illustrated with a story :
A daughter-in-law prioritises attending a kitty party over welcoming her visiting family, including her brother and sister-in-law, at home. Despite her mother-in-law's reminders about the importance of being present, she insists on leaving, saying she will return quickly. Her reason being that if she misses the kitty party, others present will gossip about her, and she did not want that to happen.
- Dayā bhūteṣu (compassion for all beings):
This divine quality helps maintain balance and harmony in relationships and society.
- Aloluptvaṃ (Freedom from Greed):
- Mārdavaṃ (Gentleness):
- hrī (Shyness and Modesty):
- acāpalam (Stillness / Lack of fickleness):
Achieving physical stillness involves overcoming discomforts such as itching, numbness, aches, and stiffness, which may arise during long periods of sitting. To ensure this stability, practicing different yoga asanas regularly is crucial for conditioning the body, improving flexibility, and building strength. As you strengthen the body, the mind also begins to settle, making it easier to progress through the subsequent stages of yoga: Prāṇayama (breathing techniques), pratyāhāra
(withdrawal of the senses), dhāranā
(concentration), dhyāna (meditation), and Samādhi (blissful union with the Divine).
Acāpalam, or the absence of restlessness, is therefore seen as a divine quality because it signifies a peaceful mind and body signifying a deeper connection with one's inner self and the divine, allowing for growth in both physical and spiritual practices.
tejaḥ kṣamā dhṛtiḥ(ś) śaucam, adroho nātimānitā,
bhavanti saṃpadaṃ(n) daivīm, abhijātasya bhārata 16.3
- Tejaḥ (Vigour):
- Kṣhamā (Forgiveness)
A person with this trait forgives quickly and does not hold grudges. If something goes wrong, he forgives. If someone speaks wrongly, he forgives. If someone behaves poorly, he forgives. His ability to forgive is swift.
A person who cannot forgive carries the thorn of humiliation in their heart. If this thorn remains, it fuels the desire for revenge.
Holding onto resentment ties the soul to the past, and one may be reborn to seek retribution. Forgiveness is essential. One needs to let go of grievances and move forward. There’s no time to dwell on past wrongs; life is too short for that. Let go, forgive, and keep moving ahead. Without forgiveness, one cannot progress. This quality of forgiveness is divine.
- Dhṛitiḥ (Patience and Determination):
As Bhagavān said in Chapter 12 of the Gita, "With a steady mind and intellect, worship me." One must be dedicated to whatever task one sets, whether it is yoga or any other activity. Even if it is difficult, even if you are old, do not hesitate to practice yoga. Chair yoga is a great alternative, allowing one to move the body gently while seated. Each day, make small resolutions. Resolve to move a little, walk a bit, and even aim for 10,000 steps a day. This is the essence of Dhṛitiḥ.
- śhaucham (Purity):
- Adroho (absence of enmity):
Shankaracharya Maharaj wrote in Bhaja Govindam:
पुनरपि जननं पुनरपि मरणं,पुनरपि जननी जठरे शयनम्।
इह संसारे बहुदुस्तारे,कृपयाऽपारे पाहि मुरारे ll
भज गोविन्दं भज गोविन्दं, गोविन्दं भज मूढ़मते।
संप्राप्ते सन्निहिते काले, न हि न हि रक्षति डुकृञ् करणे ॥१॥
- Nāti-mānitā (absence of pride):
Pride (Ati-mānitā) often sneaks up subtly, "attacking from the back," as it feeds on power, status, and possessions. It deceives one into believing these are personal accomplishments. However, humility (Nāti-mānitā), the most significant soldier of Daivi Sampad (divine qualities), serves as a protective shield against this attack. When one acknowledges that all possessions, powers, and even one's existence belong to the Supreme, the ego dissolves, making one humble, regardless of external achievements.
These are the twenty-six virtues of a saintly nature. These should be cultivated as a part of our spiritual practice for elevating ourselves to the supreme goal. One should seek these Daivi qualities from Bhagavān instead of pleading for worldly possessions which provide temporary happiness.
dambho darpo'bhimānaśca, krodhaḥ(ph) pāruṣyameva ca,
ajñānaṃ(ñ) cābhijātasya, pārtha sampadamāsurīm 16.4
In this illusory world, happiness and sorrow are ultimately equal, yet they are often driven by Asuri Sampat (demonic qualities). These qualities, though few in number (six) compared to 26 Daivi Sampat (divine qualities), are exceedingly dangerous. This entire chapter emphasises the Asuri Sampat, showcasing its significance and the potential harm it can cause.
It is crucial to note that even a single Asuri Sampat can destroy all the Daivi Sampat one has cultivated. Just as a small nail can puncture a large boat, allowing water to seep in and eventually sink it, one demonic quality can destroy the foundation of all divine virtues.
- Dambha (Hypocrisy / Pretentiousness):
- Darpa (Arrogance):
- Abhimāna (Pride):
- Krodhaḥ (Anger):
Consider this: between "B" for Birth and "D" for Death lies "C," which represents Choice. If birth and death are beyond our control, why should we fear death? Why should one allow anger to dominate our lives? Instead, we must choose peace.
Ironically, some people named "Shanti" (peace) live lives filled with restlessness. A story illustrates this concept:
A grieving mother approached Gautama Buddha, holding the lifeless body of her only son, pleading with him to bring her child back to life. Buddha set a condition: she must bring him four grains of rice from a household where no one had ever died. The woman searched from house to house but could not find a single family untouched by death. Realising the universal truth of mortality, she sought Buddha's forgiveness. This story illustrates that grief diminishes over time, and one day, it fades entirely. Joy and sorrow are both fleeting. Thus, in the Bhagavadgītā, Bhagavān advises:
सुखदु:खे समे कृत्वा लाभालाभौ जयाजयौ |
ततो युद्धाय युज्यस्व नैवं पापमवाप्स्यसि || 2.38||
Fight for the sake of duty, treating alike happiness and distress, loss and gain, victory and defeat. Fulfilling your responsibility in this way, you will never incur sin.
- Pāruṣyam (Sternness):
- Ajñānaṃ (Ignorance):
These 6 demoniacal traits are vividly highlighted to guide us away from the path of righteousness. Like a tiny spark that can burn down an entire house, or a poisonous snake bite that kills despite its small size, these negative traits, such as ego, pride, anger, and hatred, can have destructive consequences.
Dnyaneshwar Maharaj said
येर जे क्रियाजात l ते तिखयाचे कर्वत l ऐसे सबाह्य खसासित l जयाचे गा ll44ll
The destructive power of Asuri Sampat is exemplified in the story of Ravana. He had lifted Mount Kailash for his mother. He composed the Shiva Tandava Stotram, excelled in music and the veena, and was a devout follower of Mahadeva. Despite these many virtues, his pride and ego led to his downfall. Even śiva, known as "Bholanath" for his benevolence, granted Ravana a boon that ultimately led to his demise. This serves as a profound reminder of the destructive power of unchecked arrogance. Even a small fault can bring ruin, just like a small thorn can ruin the soul.
daivī sampadvimokṣāya, nibandhāyāsurī matā,
mā śucaḥ(s) saṃpadaṃ(n) daivīm, abhijāto'si pāṇḍava 16.5
Bhagavān said that as one imbibes the divine qualities, not only is he liberated from the cycle of birth and death (moksha), he is also liberated from the asuri sampada ie., delusion, sorrow, ignorance etc.
Whereas those showcasing demoniac qualities are bound to samsara, perpetuating the cycle of birth and death, the cause for a continuing destiny of bondage.
HE assured Arjuna that he being Kunti's son was endowed with all the Divine traits from the time
of birth.
Thus, if we want to escape suffering, we must align ourselves with Daivi Sampada, cultivating virtues such as humility, forgiveness, and purity. By following this path, we free ourselves from the bondages of the material world and find liberation. Bhagavadgītā provides us with guidance on how to live a righteous life, avoiding the door to hell and steering our chariot towards heaven.
Todays discourse was concluded here. This was followed by a question answer session.
Shobha Ji
Question: After my father-in-law passed away, he expressed a wish for body donation. Is this appropriate?
Answer: Body donation is considered the highest form of charity. After death, the body merges into the five elements, but it can be utilised for medical studies and research. However, for the soul's peace and liberation, a symbolic dough idol should be made, and rituals performed on it for twelve days. Bhajans and kirtans should be conducted at home during this period, as the soul remains nearby. While the physical body perishes, these actions help guide the soul towards liberation.
Question: Can a daughter perform the last rites or light the funeral pyre for her father?
Answer: Ideally, these rites should be performed by a male member of the family, preferably within the same gotra (lineage). If no male members are available, the grandson (daughter's son) can perform the rites. It is best avoided by the daughter herself unless absolutely necessary.
Prakash Ji
Question: Bhagavān speaks about yoga in the Gītā. We perform puja but cannot practice yoga. Is this acceptable?
Answer: Pranayama and meditation are parts of yoga. However, Bhagavān states that worship done with devotion is the highest form of yoga. In the twelfth chapter of the Gītā, Bhagavān emphasises that one who worships HIM with pure devotion is the supreme yogi. If one maintains faith in Bhagavān, HE helps them cross the ocean of worldly existence. As Sant Meerabai expressed, “Payoji maine Ram ratan dhan payo,” her devotion itself was the ultimate form of yoga.
Kiran Ji
Question: Please explain Mardavam, Hrir, and Chapalam again.
Answer:
- Mardavam refers to gentleness of heart. It means speaking kindly and treating others with humility.
- Hrir signifies modesty. One should feel ashamed of wrong deeds.
- Chapalam means fickleness. One should strive to control restlessness and keep the mind stable.
Aparna Ji
Question: When and how did Bhagavān enter human life?
Answer: The search for Bhagavān began with the creation of the universe. When humans questioned their existence, they explored the material world and discovered that the universe is composed of atoms, protons, neutrons, and electrons. The immense energy that governs this is Bhagavan. For instance, the destruction caused in Hiroshima and Nagasaki demonstrates the power of this energy.
Our sages meditated to find the answer to "Koham" - "Who am I?" They heard the inner voice of "Soham"- "I am That" during their meditative state. When a newborn takes its first breath, the mother's body begins producing milk. Who causes this phenomenon? The answer lies in the union of Prakriti (nature) and Puruṣa (consciousness), where Puruṣa is the ultimate Purushottam, or Bhagavān.
In times of hardship, we remember HIM. In happiness, there is indulgence (bhoga), but in sorrow, there is union (yoga). This yoga leads to realisation and knowledge.
When the question "Koham?" (Who am I?) arises, the realisation of "Soham" (I am That) follows. This is the essence of Bhagavān.
The session concluded with a closing prayer and the recitation of the Hanuman Chalisa.